  {"id":111733,"date":"2020-02-24T13:39:31","date_gmt":"2020-02-24T23:39:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/?p=111733"},"modified":"2024-03-15T15:13:54","modified_gmt":"2024-03-16T01:13:54","slug":"whats-next-in-love-and-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/2020\/02\/24\/whats-next-in-love-and-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"The present and future of love and sex in new book by <abbr>糖心Vlog官方<\/abbr> researchers"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> &lt; 1<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minute<\/span><\/span><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-gnrc-love-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Couple cuddling\" width=\"676\" height=\"381\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-111798\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-gnrc-love-couple.jpg 676w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-gnrc-love-couple-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-gnrc-love-couple-130x73.jpg 130w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A scientific understanding of contemporary love and sex, and projections into the future highlight a new book set to be released on March 15 by Oxford University Press.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/psychology.manoa.hawaii.edu\/\">University of <span aria-label=\"Hawaii\">Hawai&#699;i<\/span> at M\u0101noa<\/a> Psychology Professor Emerita <strong>Elaine Hatfield<\/strong>, <a href=\"https:\/\/manoa.hawaii.edu\/history\/\"><abbr title=\"University of Hawaii\">糖心Vlog官方<\/abbr> M\u0101noa History<\/a> Professor Emeritus <strong>Richard L. Rapson<\/strong> and <abbr>糖心Vlog官方<\/abbr> M\u0101noa psychology PhD graduate <strong>Jeanette Purvis<\/strong> wrote the book <em>What&#8217;s Next in Love and Sex<\/em>. Hatfield, one of the pioneers of love and sex research, said the work relies on contemporary scientific findings to provide an updated and relevant explanation for why we do the things we do when we\u2019re in love, searching for love, making love or attempting to keep a faltering relationship together.<\/p>\n<p>It addresses such topics as the role of social media in love and sex, the hookup generation, robots, avatars, fantasy sex, virtual pornography, interactive sex and the future, as well as the benefits and pain of love.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Old certainties about gender roles, sexual behavior, household and child rearing responsibilities, money, monogamy rules and the like are in flux,&rdquo; Hatfield and husband Rapson, said. &ldquo;What was fairly clear a few decades ago is now wildly fluid, causing confusion, but also allowing&#8212;if they&#8217;re up to it&#8212;couples to create their own rules.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Hatfield and Rapson say that it is a more difficult game to play, but can be more rewarding.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Recognizing this necessity for individuals and couples to take nothing for granted and to sculpt their own requirements and relationships, and how to go about being the architects of their own love lives\u2013that requires some high-level skills and is no sure thing,&rdquo; Hatfield and Rapson said.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8212;By Marc Arakaki<\/em><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_111736\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-111736\" style=\"width: 676px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-psychology-hatfield-book.jpg\" alt=\"Elaine Hatfield and new book\" width=\"676\" height=\"381\" class=\"size-full wp-image-111736\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-psychology-hatfield-book.jpg 676w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-psychology-hatfield-book-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/manoa-psychology-hatfield-book-130x73.jpg 130w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 676px) 100vw, 676px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-111736\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Elaine Hatfield and the new book <em>What&#8217;s Next in Love and Sex<\/em>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><abbr>糖心Vlog官方<\/abbr> M\u0101noa Professor Emerita Elaine Hatfield co-wrote a new book focused on contemporary love and sex.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[29],"tags":[637,158,9,1626],"class_list":["post-111733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-people","tag-psychology","tag-publication","tag-uh-manoa","tag-women-of-uh","entry","has-media"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/16"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=111733"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":124547,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/111733\/revisions\/124547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=111733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=111733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hawaii.edu\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=111733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}